From Rest & Relaxation...
"What I am saying is, I am in the husband's role, and you are in the wife's role. Consequently, if you want to stay married to me, then you have got to be the wife that I was, while I take the role of the husband that you were," she replied in an almost arrogantly self satisfied tone. "you will look like a pretty doll when I get home from the office. You'll have my supper on the table. You'll wear what I tell you to wear. And, if I ever catch you wearing pants without permission, I'll beat the shit out of you, and, if I can't, I'll hire someone to do it for me. You got that?"
"You want me to live your life, Anne?"
"No... I want you to live the life that you made me live. If you cannot live as my wife, get out now dressed just as you are so that everybody will know what you really are."