Putting all this feminine finery on a male certainly did not instantly transform his usual slovenly male actions into convincing female actions. Babs had prepared a list of actions and exercises to be done in conjunction with the videos which should, if followed faithfully, train a male to gracefully act and walk like a lady. The first thing on the list was to safely revise the restraints to allow for sleeping comfort and to permit Trudy (Jeff) to go to the bathroom on his own.